In a passage in her book American Pie, Michael Lee West says, “Some
people don’t know grief from garlic grits.” This puts me in a dilemma. I know
what she means, but I like grits.
She means that people who
have never experienced grief don’t know how it looks and feels, or how
overwhelming it is. Many people don’t know the chaos that the death of someone close creates. A lot of people don’t know what grits look like. You do not mistake grief, or grits, for anything else.
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Thank you, Mark. After we've once experienced a major loss, it seems that grief is everywhere. A friend's wife dies or a child is diagnosed with cancer or someone my age begins to lose their memory. It astounds me that, after a few years, I was able to put my dad's death out of my mind when living in a house where thoughts and memories of him were banished. But they were waiting in the great unconscious sea for the next big loss. Then I had the chance to grieve for my dad all over again. I won't forget.
ReplyDeleteI've had one big loss, Elaine, and I think I've grieved it fully, but I wonder what will happen when one of my parents dies.
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