When grief hits, we are pummeled by a range of emotions. We never knew we could feel so much, endure so much, or rage for hours until we were exhausted. Grief unleashes a barrage of emotions that short circuits our mind and leaves us sobbing on the floor.
Who I am.
I write about the landscape of grief, nature, and the wisdom of fools. The author of four books, my essays, poems, and reviews have been published in over 50 journals, including in the Huffington Post and Colorado Review. I’ve won the River Teeth Nonfiction Book Award, the Chautauqua and Literal Latte’s essay prizes, and my work has been nominated for four Pushcart Prizes and named a notable by Best American Essays. My account of hiking in Yosemite to deal with my wife’s death, Mountains of Light, was published by the University of Nebraska Press. http://www.markliebenow.com.
Showing posts with label Sharing Your Grief. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sharing Your Grief. Show all posts
Wednesday, April 24, 2019
Wednesday, April 6, 2016
What You Give Me When You Share Your Grief
When people who are grieving
gather together, whether this is at a retreat or at a grief Dinner Party, they
talk about their struggles and they support each other. They cry together and celebrate.
Those who are grieving know
how hard it is to be vulnerable in front of others. Too many people have shut
us down or turned away because our emotions were too strong or went on for
longer than they thought they should. But when we are among others who are
grieving, when we are among our tribe, we feel accepted, and by sharing our struggles, we
begin to work our way through them.
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Thursday, February 17, 2011
When Friends Visit
Talking about grief with
friends who haven’t lost someone close is a grab bag experience; you don’t know
what reaction you’ll get. The reactions can range from sympathy to empathy to
compassion on the positive side, and from indifference to anger to fear on the
negative, as if your closeness with death will rub off on them.
You want the people with compassion.
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Thursday, January 27, 2011
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Grief At a Party
It’s a common enough
occurrence.
I will be at a party talking
to different people about a variety of topics when someone will say something
about themselves, or ask something of me, and I either bring up the death of
Evelyn or I don’t.
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