Who I am.

I write about the landscape of grief, nature, and the wisdom of fools. The author of four books, my essays, poems, and reviews have been published in over 50 journals, including in the Huffington Post and Colorado Review. I’ve won the River Teeth Nonfiction Book Award, the Chautauqua and Literal Latte’s essay prizes, and my work has been nominated for four Pushcart Prizes and named a notable by Best American Essays. My account of hiking in Yosemite to deal with my wife’s death, Mountains of Light, was published by the University of Nebraska Press. http://www.markliebenow.com.

Showing posts with label Metaphors. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Metaphors. Show all posts

Thursday, June 16, 2022

Place Without Boundaries


 The death of someone close pulls us out of our normal life and throws us into a place that exists between the world of the living and the world of the dead. We feel alone and isolated by the trauma. People don’t understand the importance of the words we haltingly speak. We feel detached from everything we have known and trusted, and abandoned in a place without any familiar landmarks. We feel hollowed out, like the Clothespin giant sequoia in Yosemite whose center was burned out by a fire, yet continued to live. 

Sunday, July 9, 2017

Metaphors For Grief










Is grief animal, vegetable or mineral?

Elephant Journal recently published my short essay on the many images we can use to describe grief.


Thursday, February 10, 2011

Grief is Disneyland



Every so often another way to describe the journey through grief pops up. I’m beginning to think that the metaphors for the dimensions of grief are endless.


Today’s thought is that grief is like a carnival ride, and I’m going to use the rides from Disneyland to illustrate my points because Evelyn loved the place. 

Grief starts out like the Space Mountain ride.


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