Who I am.

I write about the landscape of grief, nature, and the wisdom of fools. The author of four books, my essays, poems, and reviews have been published in over 50 journals, including in the Huffington Post and Colorado Review. I’ve won the River Teeth Nonfiction Book Award, the Chautauqua and Literal Latte’s essay prizes, and my work has been nominated for four Pushcart Prizes and named a notable by Best American Essays. My account of hiking in Yosemite to deal with my wife’s death, Mountains of Light, was published by the University of Nebraska Press. http://www.markliebenow.com.

Thursday, August 28, 2014

Balancing Grief


Moving From the Rollercoaster to the Teeter-totter

Riding a rollercoaster is a lot of fun. But not for hours every day, and not if we didn’t want to go but wanted to stay curled up in a dark, still room.

Admittedly, in the early days and weeks of grief we don’t have a choice of rides. Grief takes us where it wants to go. It also tears through our hearts like a heavy-hoofed bison. We can’t stop the thoughts of grief from churning in our heads 24 hours a day, and we’re worn out by the effort to make sense of what will probably never make sense.


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